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There has always been a lot of talk about the “Portal to Equestria.” Would you go if you could? What if you couldn’t come back? What if this? What if that?

If you ask me, this line of thinking is missing the point. The portal to Equestria isn’t a great big hole in the wall. The portal to Equestria is our hearts.

You go there every time you show kindness to a stranger. When you stand up and tell the truth regardless of the personal cost, when you make someone laugh and bring a smile to their face, when you are generous with what is yours to give, what you’re really doing is reaching out and touching a piece of Equestria.

Ponyjoy is an energy. You can use that energy to make the world a better place. Even if you only do it in small ways, (with a listening ear, or a helping hand), you are still bringing Equestria home. Because Equestria is a dream – the kind of dream that changes the world. But the problem with dreams is that they can only begin to take on lives of their own when you act on them.

Equestria isn’t some place you can step into and leave all your friends and family behind, and hope to live happily ever after. Equestria is that feeling you get when you stand by the ones you love, even when Earth happens to suck.

It’s not some far away, out of reach place that you can never find, no matter how hard you wish for it. Equestria is right here, right now, right under our noses. It’s the spark of friendship that, as Twilight Sparkle put it, “lives in the hearts of us all.”

Equestria is us.

Equestria is you. When you stop and think about it, it always has been.

—Sprocket

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Image Source: Double Rainboom

Image Source: Double Rainboom

 

“There is so much talent in this fandom” is a sentiment and a phrase you hear again and again, and it is, of course, true.  However, with all the amazing art, and fic, and music, and animation going around, sometimes it’s easy to forget that, at the end of the day, even the most gifted among us are still amateurs who are learning as we go.

Recently, two eagerly anticipated and highly ambitious fan animation projects premiered, Snowdrop, and Double Rainboom.  While everypony has a right to their criticisms, and I don’t think anypony could reasonably describe either of these films as perfect in every conceivable way, (few actual episodes even are), I was stunned to see how harshly they were torn down by some reviewers and page admins.  One Facebook admin was actually legitimately furiously angry with Double Rainboom for having animation that wasn’t on par with the ponies we see broadcast on The Hub every Saturday – a show produced by a team made up of individuals who are not only paid professionals, but innovators in their field.

Now I know that most people’s reactions weren’t quite as ridiculously overcritical as this, but we as a fandom, by and large, have gotten addicted to perfection.  Every fanimation project to come out in the last year has gotten the “it’s no Picture Perfect Pony” criticism.  Why do we feel the need to keep “raising the bar”?

While Jan’s animation skills blew us all away with that particular project, the notion that other projects should have to match it in order to be enjoyed is, quite frankly, insane.

Now I’m not putting down the act of critique, nor am I looking to play the “what is this fandom coming to” card, but rather, encouraging people to celebrate the positive things in the fan media they consume, rather than sniping at flaws, because honestly, there’s just so much out there that’s worth celebrating!

The first piece of fan music I fell in love with was the power metal cover of the Cutie Mark Crusaders Theme.  It was cute, it was well done, it was fun, and it had a lot of heart.  By today’s fandom standard, it wouldn’t have gotten very much attention at all because its production values were maybe two notches below professional.

There is a lot of heart and soul and talent in fan works being produced today, but the “industry standard” (of what we expect to see and what we expect to hear) is robbing us of enjoyment of some truly remarkable works.

Over the past few years, many bronies have written heartfelt online testimonies about how Pony has helped them open their eyes to the good in the world around them.  Wouldn’t it stand to reason to apply that same positive outlook to our own fan materials?  ’Cause if My Little Pony fanimation projects are making you angry, there’s something seriously wrong with that picture.

I’m not going to use the “let’s see you do better” argument, because frankly, it’s weak.  It’s okay to have criticisms of the fan media you consume.  However, if you ever find yourself feeling angry or disappointed in the fan works of others, you would be doing yourself a favor to stop and remind yourself of The Best Night Ever.  Maybe your expectations are just too high.  You may also want to keep in mind that the producers of the material are not faceless distribution houses in some faraway Hollywood office, they are people like you and me, and they are often lurking in the same forums and communities where these critiques are vehemently expressed.

The fandom is not an entertainment industry.  We need to see it for what it is – a tribe of amateurs using our talents as best we can to share our love of pony with one another.

We should never forget that.  It’s a beautiful thing.

-Sprocket

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Source: My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic, Episode 1, “Friendship is Magic.” Airdate: October 10, 2010

Source: My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic, Episode 1, “Friendship is Magic.” Airdate: October 10, 2010

Many many fans have confessed to having found the lessons of My Little Pony to be surprisingly useful in moral predicaments. The show has a remarkable knack for taking themes in moral philosophy and distilling them to their most basic components – exposing the plain and simple truths underneath, and demonstrating them in ways that even children can grasp. What a lot of us have discovered is that, when it comes to the human heart, this elegance – this purity – is exactly what we need. It wipes the scales from our eyes. It invigorates our belief that we can be forces for good in the world. That kind of inspiration and proactive energy is precisely why we have collectively raised over $100,000 for various charities (in 2012 alone), and why so many individual fans have found that their love of Pony has made them happier, healthier people.

But here’s the thing: friendship can be complicated; life can be complicated. Sometimes you get stuck in a lose-lose situation, or faced with a friendship problem that can’t be solved with a simple apology.

I have found myself at times wishing that there was a Letter to Celestia that would sum up a particular problem I was having, (and present an easily applicable solution to it). However, the show is not a handbook to life, or even to friendship. It is not intended to be.

What it is is a doorway – an invitation to a new way of thinking – a reintroduction to that aforementioned purity of heart. Use it as such. If you find yourself in one of those tricky situations, a direct lesson from the show may not be able to help you, but that optimism, that hope, and that purity can.

In the latest episode, Twilight Sparkle graduated to a new level of study and took a blind leap into the great beyond. The magic of friendship is not the sort of thing that can be taught through apprenticeship for very long, even if your teacher is somepony as old and wise as Princess Celestia.

The show has much to teach us, but we can’t look to it for literal guidance in all things any more than Twilight can look to the Princess for a lifetime of hoof-holding. (For starters, that would lead to disappointment in the show itself, and worse yet, in our lives). This may seem like a fairly obvious statement, but it’s easy to get wrapped up in our own enthusiasm sometimes and lose perspective.

It’s okay to look to the lessons of the show for guidance, but it’s better to look inside at that feeling it gives you (your ponyjoy – that spark of friendship “that lives in the heart of us all”) – for inspiration.

A spark that does not kindle a fire is just a flash. It comes, it goes. When you look at your present predicaments or future uncertainties, you have to use that joy that the spark of friendship ignites in your heart. You need to become that light if you are to look ahead and know what it is that you have to do.

You need to write your own magic.

The show may not be able to write it all for us, but hay, it makes us smile, and it makes us cry, and it gives us the warm feeling (and the strength) we need to pick up that quill and give it a shot. When you think about it, with all of that in your arsenal, you’re already more than halfway there.

—Sprocket

Source: My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic, Season 2, Episode 15. Super Speedy Cider Squeezy 6000.  Original Airdate: 1/28/2012

 

The latest episode has provoked a mixed reaction to say the least.  However, that’s not what’s concerning.  It’s only natural that people have a diverse range of opinions about any episode, especially a controversial one.  It’s the reactions-to-the-reactions that are worrisome (if that makes any sense).

I see people turning on each other over it.  A sentiment I hear again and again is that if you didn’t like the latest episode, then you’re “butthurt” or that “you’re not a true brony and you never were.” (Actual quote).

Now I know that “Love and Tolerance” is not universally embraced as an ethos across the fandom, and far be it from me to tell others that it is a necessary component to their personal bronydom.  However, it is still part of our culture, and right now, it only magnifies and sharpens the focus around this particular problem, because it’s a truly sad state of affairs when we can’t even seem to love and tolerate one another anymore, let alone troubles from without.

The virtue of any community is not defined by how they agree, but how well they behave when they disagree.

So walk around in other people’s horseshoes for a while before acting.  If, for example, an episode of the show that you hold so very dear took a turn for the worse in your eyes, would you really want people flippantly invalidating your opinion when you expressed it?  Would that kind of atmosphere give you much incentive to stick around?  How would it leave you feeling about the very fandom that prides itself on its sense of community?  If you were, on the other hoof, elated at the quality of an episode or season, would you really want people tearing it down in unnecessarily harsh, angry, and fatalistic language?

Think about how other people feel.  Isn’t that the core message behind almost every friendship lesson in the show?

The good news is that the solution is very simple.  In fact, we can fix this problem right now.  Go to one of your brony haunts – a forum, a a chat room, a Facebook page – anywhere.  Find somepony you disagree with (about Twalicorn, reformed Discord, Season 3 in general, anything).  Give them brohooves; give them hugs; start up a conversation with them.  Offer them your friendship.  Even if the problem isn’t you; even if you were never in a vehement argument to begin with, the judgmental ones still need to be drowned out by messages of friendship.  That’s how we handled trolls back in the day when they were still a serious problem.  It worked then, and it can work now that the strife is happening from within.  We can’t stop people from being jerks about this, but we can create an environment where people feel accepted even if they happen to run into the occasional jerk.  The jerks, after all, are a teeny tiny minority in this fandom.

We are better than what we would appear to have become, and we can do better than we have been doing.  It all starts with a brohoof.

 -Sprocket
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Cheerilee is a strong, independent mare who don’t need no stallion (even when her cutie mark is an animation error).   Source: My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic.  Screencap.

 

Hearts and Hooves Day / Valentine’s Day can be a tender and sweet holiday, or an annoying obligation to spend money romancing your loved one, depending on who you ask.  For a lot of people, however, it’s something a lot worse.  It is a bitter reminder of their own loneliness.  They haven’t found their special somepony, and all the lovey dovey hype this time of year just pours salt in the wound.

If you feel alone this Hearts and Hooves Day, I implore you to take this time to contemplate your friendships – the people in your life who catch you when you fall, who hug you when you break up with your significant other, the people who help you move, the people who check in on you when you’re in the hospital.

Because that’s the stuff real romance is made of, not a bunch of candles on a table propped up near some overpriced food.

Every couple of months, the newspapers grab a hold of a human interest story – a couple who has stayed happily married for 50, 60, 70 years.  The reporter always asks the same question, “What’s your secret?”  The answers always boil down to the same three things: trust, communication, and yes, friendship.  While Hollywood sells us a fairy tale idea of romantic love, (and in the meantime, paint romantic partners and platonic friends as opposing forces in one’s life), the fact of the matter is if you’re not friends with your special somepony, your relationship simply doesn’t stand a chance.  Friendship is the core foundation of any successful relationship.

From the moment we are born, we are bombarded from all directions with the idea that romantic love is what’s magical.  What makes My Little Pony so revolutionary is that it puts forth the idea that friendship is magic.  MLP is on to something.  The bonds we form – the connections we make with our fellow human beings, regardless of whether they be romantic or platonic – that’s the stuff real magic is made of.

Celebrate that this Hearts and Hooves Day.  Tell your friends how much you appreciate them, and all they’ve done for you over the years.  Remind yourself just how much you matter to your friends.

Don’t despair.

Because love isn’t just for lovers.  It is also an important ingredient in friendship, and as long as you have good healthy supportive friendships, you’re never really as alone as you may feel.

So celebrate love, celebrate friendship, celebrate every connection you make and every bond you form with your fellow human beings.  If you’re feeling alone, look around you. Take stock of your friendships.  Chances are you’ve got more magic in your life than you may think*.

-Sprocket

*-  If you do take a look around, and still find yourself low on true friends who have your back, don’t worry.   You will find them.  The series started with Princess Celestia sending Twilight Sparkle on a simple but sacred mission – to make friends.  She did it; so can you.  What better place to start than right here in the brony community?

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Help! My Heart is Full of Pony! – Stampeding

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Source: My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic, Season 2, Episode6, “The Cutie Pox”

 

Stampeding.  Horses do it in the wild.  Background ponies do it in Ponyville, tearing apart their own town at the first sign of trouble.  We bronies do it too.  I suppose it’s in our equine nature.

Whether it was the conversion of Discord, the brony documentary, the anticipation of Twilight Sparkle the alicorn, or the prospect of a made-for-TV movie that was only described in the vaguest of terms (in relation to Hasbro’s attempts to shoot for an older audience), you can’t throw a rock in this fandom without hitting somepony who is convinced that whatever is on the horizon is The End of Pony As We Know It.

Everypony has their reasons for feeling that way, and farbeit from me to try to invalidate those feelings.  I’m not going to say that the show will be great no matter what.  After all, such things are subjective, and what you think makes the show great might not be exactly the same as what I think makes the show great.  However, I will say this – it doesn’t matter in the slightest.

On a good week, we get 22 minutes of new pony.  Let’s say you re-watch the episode three more times.  That’s still only 88 minutes a week spent actually watching the show.  Compare that to the amount of time spent talking with one another, sharing your love of pony, reading fan fiction, writing fan fiction, roleplaying, getting involved in the brony music scene, and annoying your friends with your inability to stop grinning when something completely unrelated makes you think about My Little Pony.

Our fandom was built around a love of a great television show, but it is kept alive by our sense of community – by our friendships.  At this point, even if the absolute worst case scenario were to happen, and Hasbro fired all the brilliant people involved in production of the show, and replaced them with <<INSERT YOUR LEAST FAVORITE SO-AND-SO HERE>>, it wouldn’t mean the end of our fandom.  Even if Season Four were completely unwatchable (which I seriously doubt will be the case), it doesn’t nullify your love for the episodes that originally sparked your passion for pony.  It doesn’t make them any less awesome.  It certainly doesn’t change the plain and simple truth that friendship is, in fact, magic.

While the show has captivated us all in some way, and even been a life-changing inspiration for thousands upon thousands of us, at the end of the day, we are in it for each other.  If there were no fandom, no memes, no fiction, no discussions, and no music, would you really devote as much thought and attention to those pretty pretty ponies as you currently (probably) do?  I’d wager not.

We have each other.

We need to stick together.  We need to act like a community.

If they were to cancel the show tomorrow, or take it in a direction so remarkably bad that we all unanimously agreed to stop watching, it still wouldn’t mean the end for us.  We would still be right here, hanging around our favorite pockets of the Internet, formulating theories about the little details, making memes, and sharing all the joys of past episodes.

Please try to remember that the next time you get to thinking that one of the upcoming episodes might be the ponypocalypse.  You should also remember that if you happen to disagree with the neighsayers, and you feel like you’re the only reasonable one around.  After all, losing patience with the concerns of your fellow brony really doesn’t help.

Star Trek fans built a fandom of millions from a show that only aired for three seasons.  Firefly fans continue to giggle over Jayne’s wool hat and make memes about it, and obsess over the Browncoats, even though there were only 13 episodes total and those all aired over a decade ago.

If anything happens to My Little Pony:Friendship is Magic, (and I’m not saying that it will), we bronies will still continue doing what we bronies do best – going completely nuts about the episodes of Pony that we already love, and everything will be fine.

Equestria exists.  It’s a place we all go to – maybe not with our feet, but with our hearts.  Nobody can take that away from you.
-Sprocket

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Source:http://fc04.deviantart.net/fs71/f/2011/197/a/9/make_some_friends_by_kefkafloyd-d3rdlrb.jpg

 

Ponyjoy.  I think the most amazing thing about it is that it’s not just a feeling, it’s an energy source.

It inspires us to spend countless hours making PMV’s, writing music, fanfiction, art, and every craft imaginable from wallets to cakes.  It is a feeling so powerful that it isn’t enough to just watch ponies and smile, it makes you want to spread those smiles around like Pinkie Pie does.

I’m not going to attempt to speak for everypony, but for me, when I see those smiles spreading around, when I see bronies raising over $100,000 in a single year to help those in need, I feel like Equestria is growing, making a difference not just in my internal life, but in the whole wide world.

Isn’t that what everyone wants?  Their inner life to be in harmony with that which goes on without?  To feel like what they are doing actually means something?

Now obviously the brony community can’t be all the meaning in your whole life, but it’s still darn good to know that you’re part of something that is a force for good in the world.

There is a problem, though: there are some bronies who look around at all this beauty going on in the community, and feel left out.  They lament because they think they have nothing of value to contribute.

Not true.

Even if you haven’t found your special talent, or if that talent hasn’t manifested in a way that will garnish much attention, you’re still here.

One thing that everypony reading this has in common is that you all, at some point, felt motivated to come online and participate in the brony community in some way. You could have watched the show on your own and not participated in fan activity, but you decided to come here and talk about your love of ponies.  To share it.  To be social.

To make friends.

That’s a noble endeavor in and of itself – making friends.  It was Twilight’s sacred mission, and it saved Equestria on more than one occasion.  It’s why we are here.

So treat your ponyjoy like a tool – a weapon of peace and smiles and cupcakes.  Use it to make friends, to brighten your life, and to brighten the lives of others.  That’s real magic, and the great thing about being a brony is that magic is the ultimate renewable energy source.

-Sprocket

 

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